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¶ Perempuan dan Pulut

Kalau dulu Fahmie bercerite pasal Perempuan dan Tudung Saji. Kali nie Fahmie sekali lagi membuat pembandingan antara Perempuan dengan pulut pulak. Selalunyer kejadian nie spontan jer keluar dari mulut Fahmie. Sebagai renungan kepada para pembaca.

¶ Situasi: Di dalam bus

Oleh kerana hari nie amat membosankan. Fahmie pon duduk rumah jer dari pagi tak keluar pegi mane-mane selain pergi beli top-up.Fahmie decide untuk layan video2 lawak kat dalam Metacafe.com nie. Ala Metacafe nie lebeh kurang macam Youtube jugak. Tak banyak beza pon. Sekian untuk pendahuluan.

Video nie sedikit sebanyak buatkan Fahmie berpikir. So,entry kali nie Fahmie nak reader blog Fahmie berfikir di luar kotak sikit . Fahmie, bagi satu situasi then Fahmie nak korang fikirkan jalan penyelesaian . Korang bebas untuk menjawab di bahagian comment Fahmie kat bawah nanti atau menulis entry di blog korang sendiri dan letak jer link entry jawapan korang tu kat bahagian comment Fahmie, terpulang okey . Situasinya macam nie..

Bayangkan korang adalah seorang jejaka kacak lagi bergaya dan handsome (kalau korang perempuan pon korang tetap bayangkan korang lelaki jugak,tak duli) . Korang juga adalah seorang yang berkejaya , dalam erti kata lain korang memang perfect . Atas sebab-sebab yang Fahmie sendiri takder idea korang pergi dan pulang kerja dengan menaiki bas .

Satu hari tu ada seorang perempuan menaiki bas bersama denangan korang , hanya berdua masa dalam perjalanan balik waktu malam. Perempuan tu memang taste korang pulak tuh. Nak dipendekkan penulisan entry Fahmie nie, korang memang dah jatuh cinta dekat perempuan tu . Perempuan tu pun ada tunjuk tanda-anda takat jiwang dekat korang.

Sepanjang perbualan korang dengan minah tuh semakin rapat korang rase dengan perempuan iu , entah macam mana seluar anda boleh terkoyak pulak......! Tapi mujur perempuan tu tak perasan , kalau tak pecah rahsia korang pakai boxer 18SX. Malangnya time tuh, bas dah sampai ke destinasi . Dan perempuan itu nak berjalan keluar bersama korang ! Apa yang korang buat bagi memastikan dia tak tahu seluar korang tuh terkoyak ?

Pra-Syarat menjawab soalan Fahmie nie:

0.Korang tuh adalah diri anda seorang shj.

1. Itu adalah perhentian yang terakhir

2.Perempuan tu tak buta

3.Perempuan tu tak boleh tahu langsung yang seluar anda telah terkoyak !

4.Ini bukan teka-teki ... ketepatan bergantung pada daya kreatif korang .

¶ Lelaki Merajuk dan Bagaimana Nak Pujuk

..:: Terhad Kepada Wanita Sahaja ::..

Lelaki merajuk? Dengar macam pelik. Tapi itu lah fakta dan hakikat. Bukan ade tulis kat mane-mane undang-undang pon yang lelaki tak boleh merajuk ak? Sekian untuk pendahuluan. [Treadmark]

Harapan fahmie bile korang dah bace entry nie:

Kalau fahmie merajuk, korang pujuk la.
Kalau boyfy korang merajuk, korang pujuk la.
Kalau father korang merajuk, korang pujuk la.
Kalau kawan-kawan lelaki korang merajuk, korang pujuk la.
Kalau kawan pondan merajuk, korang pujuk la. Jangan lupe, dye pon lelaki sebenarnyer.
Kalau dye tak merajuk, buat la dye merajuk. Nanti boleh la pujuk.
Hehe...da tak tau nk tulis ape.
Tapi still tulis lagi sebab nak cukup kan 10.
Korang tak sepatutnyer bace yang nie.
Tapi korang da bace sampai 10 dah. Rajin betol korang bace eak.

Ada beberapa sebab yang menyebabkan lelaki itu boleh merajuk.

1.Cemburu

Yer, ini merupakan faktor utama kenapa si ~~gila~~ Dia merajuk. Dia cemburu disebabkan ada sesuatu yang cuba mengambil anda daripada dirinya. Seperti kawan-kawan, pekerjaan, keluarga dan sebagainya. Kecemburuan ini kadang-kadang melibatkan sesuatu yang orang lain dapat lebih dari dirinya sendiri yang dianggap sebagai ~~Merogol~~ Mencabuli hak miliknya. Ha..si Dia pon ape lagi, merajuk la.

2. Tidak dapat apa yang diinginkan

Si Dia menginginkan sesuatu daripada anda, tetapi anda tidak memberikannya. Sebagai contoh, Si Dia ingin memakan Roti Canai (kenapa aku tulis roti canai pulak ni? Ahaks:D), tetapi anda tidak mahu, dan anda ingin makan benda lain. Jadi, si Dia pun merajuk sebab dia hendak jugak makan roti canai. Susah ni:P Tapi kalau nak diikut kan situasi lain korang pandai-pandai lah pikir sendiri. Korang yang gatal bercinta, aku pulak yang nak kene bagi tahu. hehehe..

3. Orang lain lebih hebat daripada dia

Adakalanya dia akan merajuk untuk mendapatkan perhatian anda. Dan kadangkala, si Dia merajuk disebabkan ada sesuatu yang membuatkan dia berasa marah dan tidak selesa. Untuk mengubat perasaan dia itu, dia perlukan anda di samping dirinya tetapi dengan cara yang sangat berbeza — merajuk. Perangai yang macam nie kite klasifikasikan sebagai kurang hasam. Penuh kebudak-budakkan and sape suroh korang bercinta or berkawan dengan orang yang macam nie.

Bila salah satu, or dua daripada tiga, or ketiga-tiga keadaan di atas berlaku. Bagaimana nak pujuk? Okey fahmie berenti sampai disini sahaja lah yerk. Ha sudah.....tak lah korang pon nampakkan? panjang berjela lagi kat bawah tuh!

Bagaimana nak pujuk?
Amaran : Tips-tips ini bukan langkah-langkah untuk memujuk, cuma sebagai panduan atau tips sahaja.

1. Biarkan dahulu.
Iyer. Fahmie tak tipu. Fahmie lelaki, fahmie tawu lah.(berlagak). Seperti yang sedia maklum lelaki nie sinonim dengan ke-egoannyer kan. So bile si Dia tuh tengah berbulu korang jangan la terus nak pujuk. Nanti makin menjadi-jadi merajuknyer tuh. Buatnyer si Dia mintak korang bungkuskan Honda EK-9 sebijik mane korang nak cari Haha..kadang-kadang best jugak tau merajuk nie. Teringat mase mude-mude dulu. Sekarang dah remaja dah.

2. Terangkan perkara sebenar
Adalah lebih mudah berkata benar, jujur, tegak dan direct to the point la senang cakap. Ceritakan kepada si Dia apa yang berlaku pada anda dan tanya pada si Dia kenapa dia merajuk. Lagi pon bukan susah sangat pon kalau nak tanya. Tekan menu-message-create message-taip nombor ~~polis~~ handphone si dia-taip *hai sayang..dah2 lah tu merajuk..jgn majuk lagi ye? I sebenarnyer bla bla bla. i love you*-send message-delivery report-delivered. Haa..sah hati si dia akan cepat-cepat sejuk. Confirm! Bukan susah sangat pun. adoyai..

Berterus teranglah dalam perhubungan anda. Janganlah berselindung. Dengan mewujudkan budaya bertanya dan berkata benar ini dapat mengeratkan perhubungan kerana, anda mengambil berat pada si Dia. Ini juga bermaksud anda menunjukkan bahawa anda menyayangi dia.

3. Bertolak ansur dan bijak dalam membuat keputusan
Memang sukar untuk anda bertolak ansur tetapi tidak bermakna anda kalah sekiranya anda mengalah. Sebab, kalau dua-dua merajuk ha. Sape yang nak pulihkn keadaan kalau bukan korang sendiri yang bertindak. Tol tak?

Dalam situasi sebegini, anda haruslah bijak dalam membuat sesuatu keputusan. Sekiranya si Dia merajuk dan anda tidak berjaya memujuknya, gunakan gaya anda yang tersendiri dalam memujuk hatinya. Dengan ini, anda kelihatan bijak dalam membuat keputusan.

4. Ucapkan kata-kata “manis”
Manis tidak semestinya manis bukan? Ketika si Dia merajuk, cuba anda bergurau senda dengan dia dengan menggelarkan si Dia “buchuk”, “comot”, “manje” ,"yayunk" dan panggilan-panggilan pelik korang la. "Bobo" lah, Name combine ker mcm "Mieya" ker. Tak pon tulis jer name penuh dye. Macam fahmie "Mohd Zulfahmi Bin Abidin". Pon boleh jugak sebagai pendahuluan.

Dalam pada itu, selit-selitkan ayat-ayat power anda dalam perbualan tetapi masih mengekalkan perkataan-perkataan manis tersebut. Ayat mesti kene power... Adalah amat kelakar bagi sehinggakan anda pun tersengih pada ketika ini. Dan fahmie saran kan korang gunakan khidmat pesanan ringkas SMS, sebab sebelum korang nk cakap tuh sempat lah korang nak berpikir.

5. Nyanyikan lagu buatnya (kalau suare korang sedap la.Kalau tak jgn buat)
Ha…tips ini merupakan tips yang paling ultimate. Kalau ditanya, berapa ramai yang sanggup nyanyi untuk kekasihnya? Pernahkah anda nyanyikan lagu untuk si Dia?

Mungkin jawapannya. Tapi pemilihan lagu mestilah bersesuaian. Lagu yang ade kaitan dengan hubungan korang ker, Lagu terkini yang famous-famous ker. Jangan pulak korang nyanyi lagu Rap ker, Rock Kapak ker, tak pon black Metal. Memang buang tebiat la korang nie.

6. Belikan something
Maksud belikan something nie tak semestinya anda perlu pujuk kekasih anda dengan pemberian hadiah yang mahal-mahal. Kalau anda berduit, apa salahnya telefon si dia dan luang masa sejam dua. Selami hatinya. Atau belikan hadiah bende yang dia suke macam koleksi Gundam ker, Cincin, Game terbaru ker, Coklat Cadbury ker or Ice Cream KitKat dan sebagainya. Kalau anda bukan berduit dan poket ala-ala kering kontang, cukup hanya dengan kata-kata manis seperti yang fahmie suro buat kat atas tadi, Tekan menu-message-create message-taip nombor bla bla bla....Delivered. Kalau korang tak dapat belikan dalam mase tuh jugak pon tak pe. Janji jer lah, awk cakap yang kalau si Dia dah tak merajuk lagi awk belikan.

7. Suruh Senyum
Kalau si Dia dah setuju yang dia dah tak merajuk lagi. Suruh dye senyum. Kalau dye sudah senyum maknanyer MISI korang untuk memujuk berjaya.

..:: Selamat Mencuba ::..

¶ Kenapa Suka Tayang?

Okey fahmie dah buat survey gune Wall Facebook fahmie mengenai

"kenapa perempuan suke menayang boyfriend dye?dye tak tahu ke yg boyfriend dye tu rimas?".

Okey kat entry kali nie fahmie tak nak tulis ape2 ulasan pasal pertanyaan fahmie sendiri. Tapi fahmie nk korang jawab la sendiri yerk. Korang bace lah klu korang nk.tp klu tak nk leave la comment pasal tajuk entry nie.Okey..Masyeh guys..

So, ini jawapan kawan-kawan fahmie.

Perempuan Kata
Nur Shaikhah Akmal Abdullah

hmmm. ntah laa. maybe saja, maybe nak mnunjuk , mybe sb nak bgtau btapa sygg nye dia kn bf diaa. mcm2 sb blh..hbs klau lelaki menunjuk gf dia kt fb plak? mcmane?
mereka yg nk tygg bf ke. nk wt iklan bf ke.. spatotnyaa. si bf ptot trus trang kt si gf yg dia rimas. jgn main ckp blkngg. kn lg sng lau jujur?kn fahmie?

Haznina Kamal

ada yg bf dia minta, ada yg wat cam2 dia nak tnjk the world yg dia sayang bf dia... dia da ada bf...
ya, let the whole world to noe... ahhahaha..... tp ku tidak buat.... hehehehhe

Ezaty Hassan

lu jealous ckp je jealous kan? hahahahha

SyeeRa Zaini

nanti syeera tanye kwn2 syeera lak ye.

Suraya Aris

yeke??

Nisa Chorletta

x smue mcm tu auw...

Nor Haiza

ye ke..xsume llki rimas cm kamu b'2...

Mya AzRa

ko je rimas kot phmie,,,,,

Matahari Bergigi

mcm maner plak kalu dier yg nak??? kalu kiter x nak tp dier yang nak mcm maner ???
hahh lg satu sbb balak dier tu takot saham jatuh o nak cover line! kalu dier x derk aper2 dier mesti ok punyer! x derk al punyer... mesti salu happy ngan gf dier! gf dier kot ! wat per couple if rimas! nampak sgt dah ader org lain!!!
yer lar.. sbb dier cbr aq, kalu x aq x kesah pown! sbb tu lar... asl kow x cayer?? sbb dier x caye kat aq, sbb tu dier suh aq letak gak!!!huhuhuhu... tp senanyer best tau!!! x derk org berani kacau aq pas tu... hee....

Fteen Idris

xsume...sbb die igt die sorg de bf kot...hahaha
de ko tgk aku kepo2 sal bf aku?...xde en?...hahaha

Farhana Mohamad

ye ke??x perasan pulak

Lelaki Kata

Haziq Nazreen

lg2 klaw boyfie die adew rupe....makk aiiii..die pnye mnayang..satu negeri nkk d bg tao!

Supee Pian

dorg nk jge aty kowg je... sbb 2 dowg x gtaw dowg rimas... ngahaha... tol x fahmi??

Kalau ade org tambah lagi fahmie akan update entry nie.okey.Terima Kasih sebab membaca. :)

¶ Reason Why I Am Single: Re-post

I oready told you before why I am single. Now i have to re-post this again. hrmm.... so read it ok.

I guess for me, I’m the guy that fits in the #2 and #4.

"I wouldn’t say I’m ugly, nor will I turn heads, I would say I’m average"

Also it is possible for me that I sub-consciously sabotage every possible relationship that I might have, as on paper my finances is a joke. Well that’s a struggling entrepreneur for ya. Maybe unknowingly I felt that I’ve nothing to offer to the opposite sex, and I just kinda let the sparks fizzle.

Anyway I’ve dated and waited for almost a year, what’s another 1 year of waiting.

I’ve really learned plenty from my past relationships, as I’ve thought of it as my training wheels for the really ’serious’ one. I really really really want to be sure this time round.

I know I’ll be a great boyfriend, friend, confidant, lover and daddy one day. That I’ve faith in.

Oh well …

footnote: so, dun ask me again the reason why I am single.Okey...

¶ Selamat datang saudara baru

Congratulation to my friend who convert her religion from Christian to Muslim. Her old name is Valarie Casberibuma and now change into Siti Aisyah Binti Abdullah.hehe.Congrats again dear.:)

¶ Batch 07

In This Photo

Saidatul Erda Samsuraja, Asz Eyva, Ahmmira Ahmad, Rizal Redzuan, Zulfahmi Abidin, Fateen Fazil, Azu Ozawa, Atin Deebot, Fieha Zahari, Nur AriNa , Farah Liyana , Afieqah Ali, Afizah Sadiman , Eka Linda , MaRa Zyra , Nur Sharafiza Mohamed Johari , Princess Luna , Nor Jannahtul Amni, Hairunaqiah Sukor , Suhaida Shah , Shazilla Kamaludin, Masrina Haneem , Mastura Hassan , Adrea Bibit , Enie Nainie , Mimi Aziah, Shahidah Shahul, Panda Perak , Nurul Husna , Ila Iloza , Shasha Syahidah , Syafika 어린이 Azmi, Mohd Ridzuan , Nor Faseha , Syafa Wanda , Hasnah As, Nisa Chorletta , Nurul Izwa, Norhayati Mokhtar , Razif Af Zaf , Shazana Izzati , Zee Yaziz , Norhanifa Rodzilah Miswan , Zurin Zulkifli , Norhidayah Mohd Rashid , Nurulhafizah Md Nor , Anikhoh Rusda Kamarul Zaman , Nurhidayah R Azmi , Sri Arjuna Muhamad , Hazeniza Shaian

this is batch Diploma In Office Management And Technology 07 and our beloved lecturer. We will leave our college.INSTEDT. I'm gonna miss you guys.

ps:tengs to Hamimi who compile this picture.for a person who not in this picture, I'm so sory.

¶ Puke

hey blogger..i just cant stop writing bout ma feelings.but if you wanna read this...go a head.but if you dont.go to hell..i dont care..

I dunno how to put my feelings into words and i even dont noe why i wrote in here..maybe this is the only places that i can spend my single moment with..but i'll try to convert it to you dear blog.

what i felt rite now seems dat so wrong.i even dont noe what to do.what to say.and what i have to see. i feels lyk im leving someone elses life.i just wanna step outside.when everything was goin rite. and i noe dat why you couldn't come along with me.this is not your dreams.but you always believin me.

at the same time.you do not noe how much you made me.you made me fucking sick to my stomic.everytime i think of you i PUKE..you may just not noe.you may not think you do.but you do and every time i think of you i PUKE again.

this is the weirdest thinks ever happen to me..what is happen to me actually?i still dont noe yet.
friends come to suffer me.and what i did is.back off..this is my life.sory Alleyza.i didnt mean to hurt you and made you wory..thanx cz being my friends even my charecteristic is weirdo among you guys friends.

my life seems to be so wrong again..I am looking at her and his beloved.and my thiny litle voise keep telling me.."Is dat great to see both of them happy?".and my head keep saying."she dump to you.why you should thinkin of them..?."yeah..i follow ma head..gud mindkeys....

maybe this is a curse on me. and I.I am Puke again when thinking bout all this. hey fahmie...what should i do...? nothing.....

i have another 2 pepers for ma final exam...this 4 May is Organizational Behavior.8 May...principles of corpotare compliance or we can say that LAW.both of this paper is Killer Paper...damnation.how should i handle this..to be profesional.i will TRY..but...I PUKE again...

i do not noe how to ends all this..maybe just have to stop rite..........................Here[titik].

¶ 10 Things Guy Wish Gurl Knew

i have come out with this entry after
i comment on my friends blog. Thax Faten cz come out with topic "apa yang mereka mahu"

Here my 10 things Guy wish gurl knew

1.calling you on the phone does not mean what you think it means.which means, we talked to says he feels tons of pressure from girl when it come on telephone..
2.you are much prettier without all that makeup..
3.when we act spazzy and giggly, ifs seriously embarrasing.please accept that..because..as you noe..guys are stupid sometime.. :)
4.gossipping, whispering and writing notes make you on look beyond shallow..and we hate dat..
5.boys worry about what you think of their hair, skin, weight and clothes..
6.PMS is no excuse to him...which means...plz dont using PMS as an excuse to get mad on or changing mood.
7.talking about your "big" butt is so boring. guys hate when you keep asking are you big or not...because..if we are being with you,it means we like the way you are...
8.tigh clothes look uncomfortable,cheap, and sort of desperate and insecure...boys things that gurl fassion is stupid..because..please dressup simple and not attract other guys to see you..
9.most boys are looking for the right girl..boys always looking to a girl what kind of guy they interested.so if you are sometime annoying him.....stop that..he will find another gurl for you..
10.if you like,just tell him..what ever topic it is..just let him noe...we will appreciate what your likes....even we dont agreed...

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this is based on
Fatin Razali entry.
she said this is what she learn from her Boyfie

1.sometimes boys mahu her gf yg text dye first.cos he feel very heppy,at least he know that her gf need him too.
2.boys mau gurl dress up secantik yg boleh ble kuor ngn dye...
3.mao gurl sedaya yg mampu utk fahami dye,lifestyle dye,his feeling,his habit.
4.boys mao his gurl pcaye kan dye,tak sala kongkong but give him some space.
5.make ur boys trust u,try la ngn cara ape pon,just make him trust u.
6.be fair..means lao gurl tak bagi his boy buat cmtu,gurl pon tak bley bt cmtu.
7.ble boy de problem,just be on his side..walau nyampah or bz cmne pon,just make him calm,dat time he really needed his gf.
8.ble tibe-tibe boy jd snyap or tak byk brcakap,gurl ptut byk brcakap.bg boys dat show u heppy hang out with him.
9.dun ever mention some name yg boys kamo pling tak suke in front of him.
10.ble boys mrajuk,pjuk la dye..cos ble kamo mrajuk,dye akan pujuk kamo,pujuk la da best yg kamo mampu
11.ble de masalah pape,jgn tunjok or lepaskn kt bf,especially while korg ngah dating.
12.ble gado n ngah mara,just pkir la even ckit kbaikan or kesweetan yg boy dye penah bt sebelom neh..sbb boys akan ingat bende tu ble dye nk pujok awek dye blik
13.gurl bley slalu kutok dye nye boys but at least bg satu pujian,ckp la pape pon yg brbentuk pujian,even pakwe neh buruk amat.
14.boys mao awek dye hug seerat mgkin while she can.
15.boys tak mao pape hadiah dari gurl,just want gurl spend time with him.
16.kdang kadang boys mao gak awek dye yg blanje dye ble kuor date.
17.jgn puji melampao laki laen depan ur boy cos ur boy will get jeles,same with gurl when boys do dat.
18.ble boys ajak kuor,try sedaya upaya utk tidak menolak except lao da x bley sgt an.
19.boys ske awek dye ciom pipi dye,even depan org ramai.
20.ble bgon pg,text morning pd boys and gud nite sebelom tdo.it show him u remember bout him every moment.
21.bgtao boys ke mane gurl mao kuor,just honest.
22.dun ever lie to her bf even utk kebaikan korg.ble da start tipu,maka akan always menipu.
23.boys ske brgurao,so gurl jgn mudah ambek hati or take it seriously.
24.sometimes bf kamu boleh buat kamu sangat menyampah ngan dye and sometime dye leh wat kamu sangat terharu ngan dye.
25.dun push ur bf,nanti tkot bf kamo akan smpai limit sabarnye.
26.love him as him love u . --------------------------------------------------------------------

i would like to know your mindkeys.
thanx fer reading.
please and please sgt2 leave your comment..

¶ Post it love

a sweety eenie meenie mynie moo little movie that make you smile

walaupun cinta zaman sekarang tak seagung cinta-cinta manusia terdahulu seperti Romeo & Juliet, terbinanya Taj Mahal yang tersergam indah. Cinta Putri Balqis dan banyak lagi la klu nk cerita...tp video nie cukup utk buat aku tersenyum sampai telinga..:)

¶ 60 THINGS A GIRL WOULD WANT BUT WONT ASK FOR

60 THINGS A GIRL WOULD WANT BUT WONT ASK FOR

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her everywhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE IT AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her!
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT'S IMPORTANT

31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT

36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
46. Rub her back--feels good
47. Give her your coat if she's cold--that's always cute
48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D
49. Let her sit on your lap
50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.
51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.
52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL
53. Keep conversations flowing...talk about anything usually they just go along with it.
54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionately and gently.
55. Surprisingly sneek up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.
56. Kiss her in the rain.
57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.
58. Slow dance with no music
59. Don't ignore her or be nervous around her--everything is going to be okay.
60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D

Thanx to Fatin Razali post on FB.
So cute, so Sweet,
after this, i'm gonna be Cassanova.can i??hehe..maybe not forever n ever..

¶: I'm outta here

DID YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR BOYFRIEND.........

MAKE you cry all the time?
DO or SAY things that make you fell stupid, embarrassed or worthless?
KEEP you from spending time with your family and friends?
KEEP you from doing things you want to do, like a job or join a team?
ACT super jealous or possessive?
SHOVE,SHAKE, SLAP or hit you?
THREATEN to hurt or kill your or themselves?
LIE or HIDE things from you?
Always EXPECT to get their way?

If you said YES even on of these, it's time to say "I'M OUTTA HERE"
Its seem a wrong way to break up with an abusive person and here's is the wrong way to look alike.but in any reason this is what u have to do.....so please..LOVE is all about "HOLD HAND"..
Sex, romance, and anything else is not an option and even a reason you belongs together.....
thanx to The Beatles who let me understand all this things...

p/s: guess what!!!?

¶: Informal letter

Dear Friends,

I noe you gonna read this blog since the 1st day i wrote for this. So, I guess I will writing all this exactly as wt I hv remembered to make all this things real. After a long conversation with you just now that just ends on 5:34 in the morning and it takes about 1 hours 32 minutes and 3 seconds. I just find something different about you then the other woman that I have meet and well known before. At the same time i do not know why i wrote about you. So, if you read this, this time I want all this to be as going in one ear and out the other. Please pretending like nothing eva happen.

My purpose to write this to you just want to remember this moment exactly after we ending our long conversation. Honestly, I have enjoy our conversation as much as I read a book during a raining days and have a cup of hot Milo in the other hands and sited on the the backyard that full of flower during a summer. Can you imagine that situation? Yeah I know you should be gud on this.

This feeling has been interrupted right after I said something that really hurt your feelings. And I am so sorry about it. Cz i didnt meant to. Its all ma fault, i'm all out while talking to other people without realize my words hurt others feeling. Hope you really forgive me as what u hv said just now.

Did you know what is the different about todays call and the other call that i hv before?absolutely not rite? Unless you have good instinct to predict me.hehe. Today, during 1st conversation we hav been trough full package feelings that was; Happy, Sad, Mad, Laugh, Psychological , Physical, Mental Ability and more. All of this combining at one single lucky call.

Thanx to you now we are close enough to meet this evening. Hope there is nothing interrupting. Just lyk you said. In front of the Transational's counter ticket. hahaha.So! i'll be at the rite time and the rite places just lyk we agreed just now. Thats it....I cant wait to se you...

Until next time.

Your faithfully,

Zulfahmi Abidin

¶: Reason why i'm single

I guess for me, I’m the guy that fits in the #2 and #4.

"I wouldn’t say I’m ugly, nor will I turn heads, I would say I’m average"

Also is it possible for me that I sub-consciously sabotage every possible relationship that I might have, as on paper my finances is a joke. Well that’s a struggling entrepreneur for ya. Maybe unknowingly I felt that I’ve nothing to offer to the opposite sex, and I just kinda let the sparks fizzle.

Anyway I’ve dated and waited for five month, what’s another five month in-waiting her.

I’ve really learned plenty from my past relationships, as I’ve thought of it as my training wheels for the really ’serious’ one. I really really really want to be sure this time round.

I know I’ll be a great boyfriend, friend, confidant, lover and daddy one day. That I’ve faith in.

Oh well …

footnote: i just bring you in my life. and i'm also the one who let u leave me.

¶: 1,2,3 and 4

To make it very clear..I wrote “THIS” for my blog at 2:05 in the morning and at 10-January-2010 on Microsoft Word before I’m updating my blog. The reason why I’m writing rite now is I have a remarkable day. Hope you enjoy reading a history about my love one.

First of all, may I introduce to all of yea my ex…ex…ex…girlfriend. The 1st one is Norhan and people just call her G-Gy. She was my first girl in my whole life. Errrr…what we call “First Love” I think. But it would be famous as “Cinta Monyet”. Hehehe,,what a annoying word. The 2nd one is Norhayatun and her nickname was Yun. The 3rd one is absolutely Noordiyana and friends call her Yana. The 4th one is Norhazwani and the gangs call her Wany. Then the 5th one I’m back to Yana. but again with Yana just be hold for only 4 month. That was the introduction for you to understand what would I wanna story for yea after this.

My story is….today my friend, that was Ali Topan (Not a real name) asks me to accompany him to find his stuff for start into a college this 15 January 2010. By noon we are going to Angsana Tampoi to get him a trousers and other stuff. Then I’m accidentally meet g-gy with her husband and child. Haha..After 5 years we wasn’t meet, finally meet her at Angsana. What a dramatic moment, but I wont even say Hi to her.

Let’s take a view of G-gy

Then by 2:00++ p.m. my friend and I go to the Larkin bus station to get my ticket for the next evening I going back to Bandar Penawar. Then I’m flabbergasting with my 3^rd girlfriends that just going back from KL.hehe. We doesn’t talk to much and I’m leaving her without saying anything to her. Just lyk I meet G-gy just now.

Now let’s take a look my picture with this girl, Wany.

After that, our next destination is absolutely City Square (CS). There I meet several of my kampong boy. It was Wan, Syafiq, and Lee-in. After westing several hours, as usual guys will thirst his cigarette. And we are taking a fresh air behind the Levi’s Store. Then, while watching another vehicle crossing in front of me. I saw that Yun and her boyfie riding a motorcycle.jeng jeng jeng.....

And here I show you my picture with Yun

Then I am smiling for a several minutes. hehe. There is the only one of my ex that I wasn’t meets yet for today. And it is Yana.

You must remember this girl.

Now, by looking and at the same times knowing that all of my ex-girlfriend has their own life and one of them has a great family. I am realizing that how I miss to be around them. Then now, I know how lonely I am to be single. Thank you for reading fellas.

p/s: I will always praying for all of you guys happiness.Amin.